1. Realize the Situation
I think one of the most important things is to realize the situation at hand. This attack on modesty and femininity has been going on for quite awhile. There have always been cross dressers and women against the Bible through all the ages. There has been sinful behaviors since Eve. So we shouldn't be too surprised with people deliberately going against God. But I think what is most difficult for today is the almost cultural total lack of femininity and modesty today. The last 150 years or so there has been a systematic consistant fight for immodesty and cross dressing. Certain groups (feminist, homosexuals, and communist) fought hard to get the American culture we have today. In fact, they did such a good job that almost no churches or pastors or priest ever speak about modest and feminine dress for ladies. In fact, there are many (I will not name names and make wars) who teach that women must wear pants and must not be keepers at home.
Why is it like this?
Well even before 150 years ago we humans started to go away from God. I realized this when I studied the later Medieval dress. During that time women started to wear more form fitting dresses and to go outside without head covers. When that happened, ladies started wearing corset like undergarments and making some kind of false hairpieces to lengthen their braids. It appears to me to be a kind of vanity. Well as time went one the corset kept getting tighter and tighter (with the exception of the age of regency dress) until women had crushed themselves 10 inch waist. I had read that many women actually broke ribs to make the smaller waist. This was very bad for a woman's health. Also, there were many times when the neckline was very low and showing off the ladies breast. Also, sometimes dresses trailed over the ground and picked up filth and of course was impractical. There were even hoop skirts that made everything under the dress shown when a woman tried to move. These extremes, I believe were not from God. However, to cancel a wrong they did other wrongs, or the women were easily persuaded to the new wrongs because of the negative experiences of the wrongs they were caught in at the time.